能否彻底解决reconnect问题, provider 关闭, consumer netty会永远重

场景

docker容器，重启ip变更 dubbo 3.0.2.1 启动provider ， consumer , -> 正常后 -> 关闭并重启provider ！！！！！ consumer必现ReconnectTimerTask ，一直在重试 ！！！！！！

能否彻底解决下， 或者提供配置项，让调用方自己关闭

[dubbo-client-idleCheck-thread-1] ERROR org.apache.dubbo.remoting.exchange.support.header.ReconnectTimerTask - [DUBBO] Fail to connect to HeaderExchangeClient [channel=org.apache.dubbo.remoting.transport.netty4.NettyClient [/******* -> /]], dubbo version: 3.0.2.1, current host: ***** org.apache.dubbo.remoting.RemotingException: client(url: dubbo://**** from netty client ******** using dubbo version 3.0.2.1 at org.apache.dubbo.remoting.transport.netty4.NettyClient.doConnect(NettyClient.java:176) ~[dubbo-3.0.2.1.jar!/:3.0.2.1] at org.apache.dubbo.remoting.transport.AbstractClient.connect(AbstractClient.java:197) ~[dubbo-3.0.2.1.jar!/:3.0.2.1] at org.apache.dubbo.remoting.transport.AbstractClient.reconnect(AbstractClient.java:253) ~[dubbo-3.0.2.1.jar!/:3.0.2.1] at org.apache.dubbo.remoting.exchange.support.header.HeaderExchangeClient.reconnect(HeaderExchangeClient.java:166) ~[dubbo-3.0.2.1.jar!/:3.0.2.1] at org.apache.dubbo.remoting.exchange.support.header.ReconnectTimerTask.doTask(ReconnectTimerTask.java:49) ~[dubbo-3.0.2.1.jar!/:3.0.2.1] at org.apache.dubbo.remoting.exchange.support.header.AbstractTimerTask.run(AbstractTimerTask.java:87) ~[dubbo-3.0.2.1.jar!/:3.0.2.1] at org.apache.dubbo.common.timer.HashedWheelTimer$HashedWheelTimeout.expire(HashedWheelTimer.java:648) ~[dubbo-3.0.2.1.jar!/:3.0.2.1] at org.apache.dubbo.common.timer.HashedWheelTimer$HashedWheelBucket.expireTimeouts(HashedWheelTimer.java:727) ~[dubbo-3.0.2.1.jar!/:3.0.2.1] at org.apache.dubbo.common.timer.HashedWheelTimer$Worker.run(HashedWheelTimer.java:449) ~[dubbo-3.0.2.1.jar!/:3.0.2.1] at java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:748) ~[?:1.8.0_192]

原提问者GitHub用户moowcharnfu